If we know on what day we die, we may set the date of our own death. Suppose that we know the timeline of our own death, what are we going to do today? Are we still going to live like what we are doing every day? Or because today we don't know what day we are going to die, so we just live as if nothing will ever happen to you?
Perhaps we live like this because we may think that our life is far longer. We fear that the future will not be as good as we hope and many of the things you want to do but are comfortable of not doing and even dream of. We may miss the future and we are even more afraid of the future than what could have happened to our lives right now or the next day. We may prolong things and keep it in your to-do-list for tomorrow and forget about the blessing moments we have today in spite of many things that have to be done right at this time being.
But death could be much faster than what we think. How much time is left for our loved ones? If you know which day is the day of your death, we must be very engrossed in accomplishing many things. This part recall me the moment of my mom’s death when I held her hands and it turned from warm to complete cold in less than seconds on the ICU bed. The tears shed from her eyes when I whispered and told her not to worry, I will take care of everyone in our family and let her know that whatever happened, I will be by her side until her last breath. Seconds after my words, things escalated quickly and she finally rested in peace on the 13th of January 2021.
This teach you a lesson to do good deeds with the people we do love without hesitation when you still have time. Tell and show your love to the person that you love, there is no better time than now. There is no expiration for the love you have for your special one especially the one that you feel safe to be with, or do everything at your best and let yourself not feel sorry in later stage in life.
You will live every day to be very happy if you know that day comes and you won't regret it later. If death brings life, then let death peacefully wrap in the arms of our loved ones. The burned bones from the cremation could be sprinkle and float along the sparkling river in the morning time, let it flows to the horizon that separates earth from the sky. I am sure that mom is now in heaven because she is my angel and always will be.
Sometimes fate has exposed us to near-death experience, giving us a sense of fear and the urge to live with conscious. Most of the time we know the value of our beloved people when it's too late.
After this second, we should be very happy and mindful about living. Wake up every morning to be glad that we are not broken into pieces of having a gap in our heart because of the absence of your love ones. Life is uncertain, you may miss a chance to do what you would always wish to as death is unpredictable.
Prioritize good deeds to the people we love and show them your love when you still have time. Make the most of your life and make the most of your happiness. May the last part of life before death is the feeling of happiness and joy. Death is close to all of us. Live consciously every day and cherish the moments in the present time with your beloved people.
In memory of my Mom, the most loving and caring person in this universe. I miss you.
P.S. Thanks to everyone for your condolence and also thanks for your presence at my mom’s funeral. I could not thank you enough for the amount of texts, emails or in any other ways of condolence.
With my utmost respects, Kanika.
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