It is said that loving someone is not easy yet at the same time it's not easy to forget someone too. Both are just different feelings. But the same thing is "TIME". It takes Time to makes us fall in "love" with someone and also time to make us fall out of it.
Theoretically, when we are in love, we will be happy, our hearts are fluttered, nourishing, blooming and hydrated. When we meet them our hearts tend to pulsate; expand and contract with strong regular movements and it seems to come out of the chest when they come close. Their notification becomes your favorite vibration and it can even make you smile alone just to see the previous conversation you have texted to each other.
It is normal in life that when you reach to the stage of love, it is always accompanied by suffering. As the old saying goes, "Where there is love, there is suffering." It is really inevitable. It is also aligned with what Shakespeare portray in AS YOU LIKE IT where he believed that men (I personally believe that this also apply to woman) go through seven stages in their lives from Infancy to Dotage and Death. Teenager stage is the significant part that related to this piece of writing where it is stated “the lover, sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad made to his mistress’ eyebrow.”
This is a strong indicator that no matter how happy you are, someday you will learn about the suffering caused by love. It does hurt with the fact that we have to walk out of the relationship that ended. It hurts with the fact that we have no control to stop the people we love. It hurts with the fact that we love people who we chose to not love. It hurts when we have to forget someone in spite of the fact that we have them inside all the time.
However, in any case no matter how weak we are, at the end, we have to heal ourselves so that we can become strong again. It is believed that the first time when the wound was first healed, it was often painful until tears were common, but over time the pain from the wound began to fade. Until we no longer feel hurt or I can say from my point of view, the immunity of pain.
We always remember all those moments very well. The faint smell of perfume, smiles, eyes, conversation, laughter, dressing that you both shared to each other.
They are "memories" that will never fade from our hearts. We are always happy with these things and when you think about it and you’re silently feel sad at the same time with the smile knowing that right now you can't even say hello. In the end, no matter what the story is, there will always be the sun for the sunflower 💛🌻🌞 Even if you don't know, love is always there in the mist air 💛
Peace and love,
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